Grief is also the emotion that helps to sustain us, as it brings to mind the memories of all that our loved one was to us. With apologies to Will Shakespeare, ... "Grief stalks me every waking hour, and casts a shadow over all I do. The chair where they sat moves once more, the bed where they rested is rumpled, the clothes they wore is once more filled with their form, and their voice and laughter once more echo from the walls. Then do I learn to become fond of grief. "